Are there limits? Limits to potential and possibility? This may be the defining question of this century. Our answer will likely determine our views on a broad range of other issues and our actions. As we head into a New Year, it may a good time to step back and reflect on our answer to that question.
A book worth reading
In deciding the answer to that question, one book has had a profound influence on me – James Carse’s Finite and Infinite Games: A Vision of Life as Play and Possibility.
I first read Carse’s book almost 25 years ago. It is one of those books that I keep returning to and finding new insight each time. I am amazed that this book hasn't received more attention over the years. It's provocative and full of paradox, something that pulls me in every time.
Like any good book, it's difficult to summarize. Carse makes the case that the world and our experience of it can be divided into at least two different types of games - finite and infinite games. “A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play.” As its name suggests, a finite game has a definitive end and a defined number of players. Infinite games in contrast transcend time and invite anyone who is willing to play to join in.
The rules of a finite game are set in advance and cannot be changed. On the other hand, the rules of an infinite game can and must evolve to ensure the continuation and expansion of the game. “Finite players play within boundaries; infinite players play with boundaries.” Finite players seek predictability while infinite players embrace unpredictability. “Surprise causes finite play to end; it is the reason for infinite play to continue.”
Finite games are ultimately power games – acquiring power, expanding power and retaining power. Infinite games are not about power but strength. “Strength is paradoxical. I am not strong because I can force others to do what I wish as a result of my play with them, but because I can allow them to do what they wish in the course of my play with them.” Finite play requires perception of great power while infinite play encourages expression of vulnerability – “exposing one’s ceaseless growth, the dynamic self that has yet to be.”
Finite games are serious while an infinite game is playful.
Seriousness always has to do with an established script, an ordering of affairs completed somewhere outside the range of our influence. We are playful when we engage others at the level of choice, when there is no telling in advance where our relationship with them will come out . . . . seriousness is a dread of the unpredictable outcome of open possibility. To be serious is to press for a specified conclusion. To be playful is to allow for possibility, whatever the cost to oneself.
This is just a small taste of the distinction that Carse draws between these two forms of games. I urge you to read his book to see how he draws distinctions between society and culture, theatricality and drama, curing and healing, and machinery and nature by exploring the contrast between finite and infinite games.
I love this book for many reasons, but one stands out. It warns us of the dysfunctional behavior engendered by limits and at the same time it highlights the extraordinary opportunity that arises when we embrace potential and possibility. Much of my recent thinking has been exploring the contrast between these two approaches to the world.
How this book has shaped my perspective
Take push versus pull. While not a perfect match, finite games tend to be won by push strategies while an infinite game rewards those who pursue pull strategies. Push requires predictability and limits while pull draws out potential in unexpected ways without limit. In a similar vein, finite games are all about competing for stocks of knowledge and goods while an infinite game is all about participating effectively in flows to draw out potential and possibility. An infinite game is about fluidity and growth, motivating participants to seek flows while finite games treat resources as a given, shifting the focus to stocks.
My previous post was about the cognitive biases of uncertainty. Finite games are ways to cope with uncertainty – they impose boundaries and rules. In doing so, they also shorten one’s time horizons, set people in direct conflict with each other and erode trust. An infinite game counteracts these cognitive biases by focusing players on distant horizons and highlighting the potential to make greater progress by striking a productive balance between competition and collaboration. An infinite game promotes trust and therefore makes it easier to participate in flows while finite games, with their erosion of trust, drive players to focus on stocks that can be owned and controlled.
Similarly, I have written about a distinction between story and narrative – the former has a beginning, middle and end while the latter is open-ended and invites expanding participation by others. Carse devotes quite a bit of time to stories and myths and their role in both finite and infinite games. While he does not make the explicit distinction between story and narrative that I do, this distinction maps nicely with his distinction between finite and infinite games.
The finite/infinite game contrast illuminates a distinction I have drawn between two key types of passion – the passion of the true believer versus the passion of the explorer. The true believer knows exactly what the destination is and the path required to get there – think of adherents to fundamentalist religions and many Silicon Valley entrepreneurs. This form of passion naturally tends to view life as a finite game – the game ends when the destination has been reached and there are clear rules or ways to proceed in order to reach the destination.
The explorer is passionately committed to making an increasing difference in a selected domain but has no destination in mind and certainly has no pre-determined pathway. The explorer is focused on drawing out potential and possibility and thus naturally drawn to viewing life as an infinite game. An infinite game nurtures both the questing and connecting dispositions that are the defining elements of the passion of the explorer.
On an even more fundamental level, I see an interesting parallel with my writing on masculine versus feminine archetypes and Western versus Eastern views of the world. The masculine archetype and Western view of the world tend to align much more readily with a finite game perspective while the feminine archetype and Eastern view of the world lead more naturally to an infinite game perspective.
How to play an infinite game in a world of finite games
Now, here’s a challenge. Our institutional architectures – everything from corporations and non-profits to schools and governments – are built on push-driven, finite game views of the world. If one wants to pursue an infinite game instead, what does one do? Do you take these institutional architectures head-on and seek to oppose and/or transform them?
This is an issue that Carse addresses only in passing. He provides a clue with this observation: “Infinite players do not oppose the actions of others, but initiate actions of their own in such a way that others will respond by initiating their own.”
Or, in my words, pull, don’t push. By going into opposition with finite game players, it is easy to get sucked into a finite game.
Far better, if possible, to avoid direct confrontation and find ways to pursue infinite game play on the margins or edges of finite game institutions or in the white spaces not yet occupied by finite game institutions. By drawing attention to horizons that have not yet been explored and demonstrating the ability to make progress in drawing out more potential and possibility, infinite game players have a greater chance of shifting the game and attracting other players. By building parallel institutions and practices that pull others into their game, infinite game players can attract enough critical mass so that they can pursue their quests with lower risk of intervention from the finite game players who view such actions as deeply subversive. At our research center, JSB and I are now exploring these kinds of approaches as a way of achieving organizational change within large institutions.
As I noted above, Carse insightfully points out that boundaries are necessary for finite games while infinite game players seek to undermine all boundaries. Given my preoccupation with the importance of edges, this might appear to be a contradiction. To be clear, I am drawn to edges (what Carse labels as horizons) precisely because they generate possibility, not because they define limits. Edges are fertile ground for an infinite game that draws out potential and possibility in part because finite game players tend to avoid them and they attract those who are more excited by infinite games.
The question before us
So, as we approach the New Year, it is time to ask, what game shall we play? In the face of growing uncertainty and the growing dysfunction of push-based institutions, shall we seek the shallow comfort of finite games or head out of our comfort zone to play an infinite game? And whom shall we seek out to play these games with? As Carse observes, “no one can play a game alone.” Game on.
This is really wonderful. Thank you so much for continuing to draw attention to these areas (personally very timely). Jonathan.
Posted by: Jonathan Dean | January 26, 2012 at 05:52 AM
Thanks for a great summary of the ideas of the book, and the recommendation. It is now sitting on my to-read stack, hoping to get to it within a week or so.
I've been reading up on SOPA and the broader Copyright Wars, and can't help thinking that the MPAA (and the rest) are playing a finite game, while the rest of us are enjoying (or trying to enjoy) an infinite game.
Posted by: Brett | January 16, 2012 at 06:00 PM
I have also periodically re-read Carse's book over the past 25 years, and find new insights revealed each time, reflecting changes in my self and in my interpretation of the so-called external world.
During my latest revisitation, I was struck by the correlation between finite games and fundamentalism and totalitarianism, perhaps influenced by my having re-read Orwell's 1984 immediately prior to Carse's book. Carse's observations about the nature of evil are particularly relevant:
This leads me to reflect further on one of the extensions you propose here:
On the one hand, this represents the opposite of Carse's definition of evil. Rather than finite games absorbing or capturing players of infinite games, the infinite players may succeed in releasing those currently captivated by well defined rules, tools and schools.
On the other hand, I am reminded of Tim O'Reilly's insightful observation while debating whether "The Web is Dead?" with John Batelle and Chris Anderson:
Integrating these insights, it strikes me that finite and infinite games are likewise in a great dance, and that while some innovative institutions and practices playing infinite games may succeed in attracting some players of finite games (i.e., those engaged in more rigid institutions and practices), as they do achieve critical mass, I suspect they will find themselves exhibiting and practicing more finite game mechanics ... thereby setting the stage for the next cycle.
Posted by: Joe McCarthy | January 12, 2012 at 12:31 PM
Thanks for reminding me of this great, little book. Time to buy it again, as it was somewhere lost...
Posted by: Ria Baeck | January 06, 2012 at 01:53 PM
Thank you for these great insights ! I read them right before an important meeting and it really shifts the way I'll listen and talk.
These distinctions remind me Robert Fritz's distinction between the "world of problem solving" vs. the world of creation (The Path of Least Resistance). Also about institutions, I love this book : Orbiting the Giant Hairball. It tells a similar story about how to create parallel spaces instead of confronting the Finite Game players.
Posted by: Laurent Marbacher | January 05, 2012 at 08:02 AM
Applause ! Happy 2012 !
Liked your reference to silicon valley ! Things need to be shaken up from bottom > up emergence rather then making the same mistake that has come before in other industries of the top< down engineered sameness.
Glad You and JSB are spending time on this as it is VIP to save the mother ship since the finite world has eaten itself up ! Cat catching it's tail is reaching a crescendo going no where fast ~
For me not having the bio hearing sense all my life the finite world was off limits as it is too deterministic and judgmental for those of us who live via all the wonderful deeper senses we human possess but do not use as the superficial manipulative verbal world of sound has taken over everything via media etc.
No way to keep up with the world of " sound", I entered the world of infinity and exploration as infant 60 yrs ago and a wonderful world it is of possibilities as you say ~ Everyday is a stimulating day of fun adventure! I never had any idea why people persisted with the linear robotic world of finite limiting their amazing deeper sensory abilities as a Human they born with .
Being a big fan of your work is why I visit you ~ Nice omen for 2012 that you are going to break the bottle neck in world of commerce etc with teaching people this perceptual shift of expansion of spirals in the infinite space over the redundant deading locked down contained linear boxes.
Thank you !
Posted by: Cassandra Rose | January 04, 2012 at 02:35 AM
Adding my thanks here too. I also read Carse's Finite and Infinite Games more than 25 years ago when my daughter was in his class at NYU. Finite and Infinite Games is one of my all-time favorite books, a real gem.
Posted by: Delia Lake | January 03, 2012 at 01:20 PM
"A mythical bird that never dies, the Phoenix flies far ahead to the front, always scanning the landscape and distant space. It represents our capacity for vision, for collecting sensory information about our environment and the events unfolding within it. The phoenix, with its great beauty, creates intense excitement and deathless inspiration." - Lam Kam Chuen
Posted by: Anna | January 03, 2012 at 11:01 AM
ah. perfect John.
thank you.
Posted by: monika hardy | January 03, 2012 at 10:47 AM
That book is my all-time favorite. My copy is worn thin. Thanks for making these great connections to Carse's writings, John.
Posted by: Gideon Rosenblatt | January 03, 2012 at 10:17 AM
Hi John!
I always love reading your blog, especially today. Great post, these words really caught my attention because I'm in the process of doing this.
"By drawing attention to horizons that have not yet been explored and demonstrating the ability to make progress in drawing out more potential and possibility, infinite game players have a greater chance of shifting the game and attracting other players"
I have no doubt which game I'm playing in 2012 but reading your commentary reinforced my resolve and gave me further validation that I'm on the right course.
Thank you so much.
Jan Gordon
http://www.scoop.it/t/content-curation-social-media
Posted by: Janlgordon | January 03, 2012 at 08:57 AM
Another way to distinguish these two types is that finite play is competitive and uses "power over" others, while infinite play is collaborative and uses "power with" others.
And at least with humans, they are motivated to play infinite games when they have all their basic needs for healthy growth consistently provided for by the rest of the game players, so that they feel like it's safe to think out of the box and to collaborate with others.
So perhaps the way to encourage others to play the infinite game is to specifically ensure that they have the high quality basic needs that they require to move past Maslow's deficiency needs, and into the transcendent levels of motivation. Most humans these days are seriously deficient, and many don't even know it. For starters most people have exceedingly low quality "food" that is really more addictive and toxic than anything. And most people don't have a home where they unconditionally belong (usually someone else owns the home, either a landlord, parents, or a bank, and even when they do own the home they are under constant threat of having the government take it away if they don't pay taxes). And without proper nutrition and the right to comfortable shelter, no one can function well! Yet we continue to irrationally expect that people be their best, when they clearly can't. Give them what they need to be their best, and they will...
Posted by: Turil | January 03, 2012 at 08:41 AM
I'll play for the infinite !
Posted by: Anna Hill | January 03, 2012 at 07:33 AM
Thank you for this amazing article John and here is my favorite part:
The explorer is passionately committed to making an increasing difference in a selected domain but has no destination in mind and certainly has no pre-determined pathway. The explorer is focused on drawing out potential and possibility and thus naturally drawn to viewing life as an infinite game. An infinite game nurtures both the questing and connecting dispositions that are the defining elements of the passion of the explorer.
Gigi
Posted by: Gigi Schilling | January 03, 2012 at 06:49 AM
John, thank you for this great post! I read Carse's book and like you describe it made a big impact on me. I enjoyed reading your post and the way you link Carse’s thoughts and questions to today’s reality. Take care, Aad
Posted by: Aad Boot | January 03, 2012 at 05:38 AM